Instagram guilt-tripping parents into letting young children open an account or risk being bullied

INSTAGRAM is guilt-tripping parents to let their very young kids join the social media site by claiming kids not on the app get bullied. The Mark Zuckerberg-owned site also says a public account is just “part of the fun” and not a cyber safety danger.

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INSTAGRAM is guilt-tripping parents into letting children younger than 13 have their own accounts by claiming they will be bullied if they are not on the app.

The social media giant also argues that having a public account­ is “part of the fun”.

It has come under fire from cyber safety experts over its “parents’ guide to Instagram” which claims that kids who don’t have Instagram can “risk social marginalisation”.

13-year-old NSW teen Sabre Norris has more than 200,000 followers on Instagram.

The guide says kids can “learn to manage” risks such as cyberbullying or having predators­ reach out to them.

The guide, to inform parents­ about how to use the app safely, also says while Instagram has a minimum age of 13, it “doesn’t ask users to specify their age, and there are many younger children who use” it.

“Whether Instagram is ‘safe’ depends more on how it’s used than on the age of the user,” the guide states.

“Even if a parent bans all social­ media, his or her child’s photo and other information can be posted by friends via their accounts.

“And there’s a risk of social marginalisation for kids who are not allowed to socialise in this way that’s now so embedded in their social lives.”

Instagram’s guide for parents detailing the risks in using the social media platform and the best ways to keep children’s usage of the platform safe.

The guide also encourages public accounts.

“For many kids, part of the fun of Instagram is developing a big following­ — a good thing for parents and kids to talk about. Having a public account on Instagram means anyone can follow you,” the guide states.

“The main things parents worry about are typical of all social­ media. Parents are also concerned that people their kids don’t know can reach out to them directly­. Kids can learn to manage­ these risks, which is why we wrote this guide.”

Best Enemies director Ross Bark, who runs cyber-safety courses in schools, said it was “ridiculous” to suggest children were going to experience “social marginalisation” purely for not being on the app.

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Ross Bark and brother Darren from Best Enemies.

He said that anyone under 18 on the app should have a private account and children under 13 “should definitely not” be on Instagram.

“Social marginalisation sounds like a term that has come out of a marketing manager’s mouth … it sounds like a young person will be on the fringes of society if they are not on Instagram which is a silly suggestion,” Mr Bark said.

Top 5 questions parents have about Instagram. Picture: Instagram

Questions four and five of the Top 5 questions parents ask about Instagram.

He said even when a child’s Instagram account was run by a parent, there were risks of identity theft or predators.

Security In Depth chief executive Michael Connory said it was “self-serving” for Instagram­ to encourage children to have public accounts.

He said children didn’t have the emotional maturity to manage the dangers by themselves. “The more open the account is, the more likely they are to be a victim,” he said.

Millie Bobbie Brown has 17.1 million followers at just 14.