Australians urged to watch out for dating red flags ahead of Christmas season

The holidays might be a romantic time to fall in love but dating experts have revealed the biggest red flags to look out for this festive season.

Daters this holiday season have been told to gravitate to the green flags. Picture: NCA NewsWire/Tertius Pickard

Extra clingy behaviour and over-the-top romantic displays are among the major red flags to watch out for during the festive season, according to top dating experts.

While Christmas has been known as an especially affectionate period for couples it can also be a fraught time for many, especially those in newer relationships.

E-Harmony psychologist Sharon Draper said the festive season was a once-in-a-year opportunity to give people insight into their romantic partners ‘red’ or ‘green’ flag behaviours early on.

“These red and green flags are likely to reveal themselves at this time of year when things get stressful as well as sentimental with Christmas rom-coms on high rotation,” she said.

For those in the ‘honeymoon period’ of a new romance, the festive season can be a strong indicator of whether your relationship has long-term prospects. Picture: Gaye Gerard/NCA NewsWire.

“A good analogy of the holiday environment for new couples is like being popped into a pressure cooker – the relationship must handle increased heat in a condensed amount of time.

“And like a pressure cooker, the end-result can either be a perfect dish or one that’s destined for the bin.”

The holidays should be a relaxing time for couples and warned anyone who makes unrealistic demands of your time could be an indicator of a future clingy partner, according to Ms Draper.

Partners who always insist on doing everything exclusively together can “dull the magic” and give the impression they lack trust in you.

Experts say Christmas is the most common period for couples to break up. Picture: Dylan Robinson/NCA NewsWire.

Furthermore, a romantic partner who tries to force their beliefs, values or festive rituals could signal a future issue.

While many couples with religious differences go on to have successful partnerships, anyone who shows a lack of interest or respect in another person’s values should be considered a potential problem.

Ms Draper also said any companion rushing to introduce you to their family members or friends at Christmas lunch should be looked out for.

“It could be they’re desperate to show someone off to their relatives, but relationships that move too fast tend to blow up equally quickly,” she said.

“Ask yourself: If it wasn’t the holidays, would I be ready to be introduced to their mum, dad, siblings, and cousins?”

Christmas can be a great way to get deeper with someone and find out about their family history, beliefs and values.

The most positive sign of good character in a new partner is a willingness to negotiate difficult family dynamics, according to Ms Draper.

A partner who has your back with the ‘in laws’ and is open to discussing how to make the holidays best work for everyone is sure-fire candidate for a healthy relationship in the long run.

“If they ask you what you need and how they can help, rather than just assuming you’ve got it all under control, that’s a definite green flag,” Ms Draper said.

“It indicates they’ll be willing to play their part in dealing with the hustle and bustle of life and sharing the load in the longer term.

sets up a good foundation in the long term.

Originally published as Australians urged to watch out for dating red flags ahead of Christmas season