Ice hockey player’s wife’s heartbreaking double pregnancy eulogy reveal
There have been distressing scenes as the wives of killed brothers revealed devastating pregnancy news as the duo were laid to rest.
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Hockey-playing brothers Johnny and Matthew Gaudreau were laid to rest Tuesday (AEST) the way they lived — side by side — as it was revealed that both their widows are pregnant.
“God really did draft the best two boys,’’ Matty’s weeping widow, Madeline, said at the church in Media, Pennsylvania, where mourners included NHL players such as Pittsburgh Penguin and ex-Ranger Kevin Hayes and league Commish Gary Bettman.
While it was widely known that Madeline is pregnant with her and Matty’s first child, Johnny’s widow Meredith announced during her own eulogy to the brothers that she is pregnant, too, nine weeks along with the couple’s third child, The New York Post reports.
John, a 31-year-old All-Star for the Calgary Flames and Columbus Blue Jackets known as “Johnny Hockey,” and Matthew, 29, who played collegiate hockey alongside his brother at Boston College, were killed by an alleged drunken driver on August 30 while out on a bike ride on the eve of their sister’s wedding.
Their widows spoke in front of their husbands’ caskets, which were placed facing each other in the packed St. Mary Magdalen Catholic Church.
“They slept in the same room up until college, and neither of them wanted that to change,” Madeline Gaudreau said.
“John took care of Matty, and Matty took care of John. It brings me comfort to know they are still together forever, as they always were.”
But their deaths have left her “trapped in a nightmare I can’t wake up from,” too, she said.
“Matthew was so excited to welcome Tripp into this world,” she said of the couple’s unborn son. “Tripp will know how much his father loved him.”
She then turned to her sister-in-law Meredith.
“There is one person in this world who knows what I am feeling, it’s you,” she said. “And for that, I am sorry.”
In an equally moving eulogy, Meredith Gaudreau sobbed as she called John “my soulmate.
“The fact that you are both together in Heaven gives me a little bit of comfort,” she said of the dead siblings.
“I know John could not live a day without his brother. That whatever silly conversation they were having just picked up in Heaven in a flash.
“John and I had the best six months as a family of four,’’ Meredith said, referring to life after the birth of their second child, son Johnny, in February.
“There’s specifically one week that I will cherish forever — it will be my favourite week of my life out of those six months. We’re actually a family of five. I’m in my ninth week of pregnancy with our third baby,’’ Meredith said.
The widow said the pregnancy was a “total surprise’’ — and that Johnny was overjoyed about it.
The Reverend Ralph Chieffo said in his homily that the size of the crowd of mourners was proof “that John and Matthew’s lives mattered.
“That they were noted on this Earth. That they were loved on this Earth. That they were valued on this Earth,” he said.
“All of us simply have a visa on this Earth,” the priest said. “We don’t have a passport. We’re here for a short time. Sometimes too short a time. We’ve been robbed of something here today — two really wonderful young men … who had futures left to live, who had goals and accomplishments yet to be achieved.”
The pallbearers for Johnny included NHL players Hayes, the Blue Jackets’ Sean Monahan and Washington Capitals’ Andrew Mangiapane, while Matthew’s casket was carried by, among others, Devin Joyce, his future brother-in-law. Also in attendance were the Montreal Canadiens’ Cole Caufield and Patrik Laine.
Caufield, who has worn No. 22 for the Canadiens, has said he will now wear No. 13 in honour of John Gaudreau.
The funeral followed a private viewing Sunday.
Madeline Gaudreau said during her eulogy, “I urge everyone not to drink and drive.
“Please do not leave another family in this torture.”
The brothers were mourned across the sports world, including in Columbus, Ohio, where Johnny signed a free-agent deal in 2022 with the small-market Blue Jackets over more lucrative free-agent offers from other teams, including in New Jersey.
The Gaudreau brothers were cycling on a road in Oldmans Township about 8pm when they were struck by an SUV, New Jersey State Police said.
They were pronounced dead at the scene.
The driver, 43-year-old Sean M. Higgins, was charged with driving under the influence, reckless driving and two counts of death by auto. He is facing a hearing September 13.
— This story originally appeared on The New York Post and has been republished with permission
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