‘There is no shame’: Nightclub funeral a final act for Brisbane dancer
Family and friends of Jamie Wood transformed a Brisbane entertainment venue into a sea of colour in a tribute to the vibrant performer.
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Family and friends of Jamie Wood have transformed a Brisbane entertainment venue into a sea of colour in a tribute to the vibrant performer.
Loved ones on Thursday shed equal tears of sadness and laughter at Cloudland during a funeral as unconventional as the exuberant dancer.
Drag queens came in full glam and others donned colourful hair and clothes in a tribute to the bright Bowen Hills man who died in late August.
But life for Mr Wood wasn’t always as happy as the face he showed the world.
Mental health issues and borderline personality disorder ultimately claimed his life.
His brother Nicholas Wood said it was fitting the funeral at Fortitude Valley fell on R U OK? Day and the hours before World Suicide Prevention Day.
The aim of R U OK? Day is to engage Australians to connect with people in the community they may have concerns about, encouraging them to seek further help and to follow up to ensure support is being provided.
“For my last goodbye, I want to say I’m so sorry I wasn’t there for you more,” Nicholas said in his eulogy.
“I will always think I could have done more, been nicer or just saw you more.
“I’m forever grateful for all the times that we had and I’m hurting more than anyone will ever know.
“The public system has failed you but more importantly I failed you.”
Nicholas’ eulogy was read to the crowds at the charming venue as well as words from Mr Wood’s parents, sister Samantha and sister-in-law Brittany.
Mr Wood’s former partner of a decade Nick Skein also reflected on his favourite moments, travelling the world together as performers.
“You were my partner in crime, my ride or die,” Mr Skein said.
“At this moment, the one thing I’m grateful for is I finally gave you a kiss on the lips, the last night we saw each other.
“I’m going to be a lucky boy having a guardian angel like you.”
The funeral celebrant reminded friends and family that no one was to blame for the tragedy and encouraged them to reach out when they were struggling.
“Mental illness is a genuine condition and there is no shame, none, so please talk about it,” she said.
“It’s okay to talk about how you feel and to talk about Jamie as well.
“Say his name because for every suicide there are tragic ripple effects for everyone- for friends, for families, and for the broader community as well.”
She invited those in attendance to write a final message on Mr Wood’s coffin in what was his final party at Cloudland.
His body was driven around the block before friends and family waved one last goodbye.
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