The two types of long-distance love affairs
When it comes to giving advice for long-distance lovers, relationships coach Stephanie Rigg says you can break down these relationships into two types.
“As a starting point, you can delineate between relationships that are long-distance from the outset – so if you met someone while you were travelling and you were always going to be long distance – as opposed to a relationship that you're already in and for whatever reason circumstances dictate that you need to be long distance for a period of time, or perhaps in an open-ended way,” she tells Body+Soul.
If you’re in the latter situation – an already established relationship and you have to be apart for a time – Rigg says it can almost be easier.
“Because you already have a baseline foundation of intimacy and knowing each other so you might have a bit more in the tank to sustain that time apart,” she says. “Whereas it might be hard to create that level of intimacy, connection and depth of knowing another person when you live apart and you're not involved in each other's lives on a day-to-day basis.
“You don't have insight into all of those everyday things that can create intimacy and connection, and that can be really hard.”
So, before you agree to go the distance – whether you’ve just met an overseas pen pal or your lover is headed for the departure gates – here are five things you need to know.