How this OnlyFans couple is using their kink for the greater good

And they're just getting started

Here’s how an intimacy coach and health and bodybuilding coach are using the infamous platform to not only enjoy their mutual kink but to help others explore their own.

After getting together through mutual friends eight years ago in New Zealand, Stace and Ty– a sex and intimacy coach and bodybuilding coach – quickly discovered they shared a mutual bedroom kink. 

Now, the Melbourne-based couple is on a mission to help people across Australia feel more comfortable expressing and exploring their sexual fantasies. After seeing the positive benefit this exploration of intimacy had on their relationship, the saucy duo decided to venture into the infamous world of subscription-based adult entertainment. 

“OnlyFans came about because we soon discovered with each other that we had a shared kink of people watching us, and there was no better platform than OnlyFans to live that out,” says Ty. “It evolved and rapidly happened from there.”

But as spicy as Stace and Ty’s content is – revealing an up close and personal view of their rampant sex life – the pair aren’t churning out videos with the sole intention of making money. 

For the intimacy and bodybuilding coaches, creating a safe space to explore their performative kink in front of other curious subscribers is their main driving force. 

“Us discovering our kink and being able to be in a relationship where we're comfortable enough to talk about and actually explore it, has developed our intimacy in our relationship beyond what we've ever experienced before,” explains Stace.

What’s most surprising to Ty and Stace about their content, is who their growing subscriber base consists of. 

“The type of following that we have on OnlyFans is majority female and actual couples,” says Ty. “We’ve been blown away with the messages we get from people saying how much we inspire them to live out their sexual potential with their partners and things like that.”

“They do come to us and talk to us about the intimacy issues with their relationship or marriage,” adds Stace, an intimacy coach by trade. “So that's something that we didn't expect – the kind of messages and connection that you can develop with some people.”

Drawing on their strengths

And while diving into intimacy may be Stace’s bread and butter, Ty – a veteran of the fitness industry who specialises in male transformations– brings his own unique perspective to the couple’s content. 

“What somebody doesn't expect to get from a transformation is a physical one, is all the mental stuff that comes with it as well,” he says, referencing a person’s ability to develop willpower, discipline, and commitment.

“Those rights that you need to get a body transformation – they’re transferable into other areas of your life, and one of those areas is your relationship,” he adds. “And I have found a huge percentage of the guys that I actually coach have also said their relationship and intimacy also has improved as a result of that.”

Stace and Ty find filming their intimate moments has only strengthened their bond. Image: Supplied

But coming from an industry that often has a tendency to promote toxic views around body image and masculinity, Ty is passionate about educating men in particular about the importance of mutual respect and understanding in a relationship, leading by example with the help of Stace and their growing platform.

“When you're operating on that level, it is typically a very, very selfish game,” Ty says. “However, it doesn't have to be. You can still learn all those traits that can have you succeeding at that level, but you just bring that into your relationship.”

Eager to reach more people perhaps in search of advice in the intimacy space, Stace and Ty are on the cusp of launching their online community this April, designed to offer people a range of explicit – yet educational – tips and tricks.

“Where do you find that apart from traditional porn or trying to read stick figures in a Cosmo magazine? And where do you actually learn that?” Ty says. “So in a very tasteful manner, we are putting together a community, and part of that is actual explicit educational demonstration videos to teach you how to do these things.”

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Originally published as How this OnlyFans couple is using their kink for the greater good