We all know DV victims, we just mightn’t realise it, says Zahra Foundation’s Kelly-ann Tansley

We all know someone impacted by family violence even if you don’t think you do. And the Zahra Foundation is helping women escape it with a focus on one key element.

Zahra Foundation Kelly-ann Tansley says supporting women to financial independence is crucial. Picture: Matt Loxton

The proof lies in the statistics: it’s most likely you know someone who has been touched by family or domestic violence whether you realise it or not, Zahra Foundation general manager Kelly-ann Tansley says.

“We know through research the prevalence of domestic violence is much higher than many community members know,” she said.

“There is a significant likelihood that all of us know somebody within our circle of friends, family or community networks who is impacted by domestic and family violence. Yet, it still seems to be an issue that isn’t spoken about as much as it should be.”

Ms Tansley said it was vital that organisations such as hers had the capacity to reach and help those in need. Tragically, on average, one woman a week is murdered by her current or former partner, with one in three women touched by physical or sexual violence, perpetrated by a man they know.

The Zahra Foundation was established in 2015 following the murder of Zahra Abrahimzadeh, who was killed by her former husband in 2010 after enduring 20 years of domestic violence.

Mum of three Zahra Abrahimzadeh was killed by her former husband in 2010 after enduring 20 years of domestic violence. She is pictured here with Anita as a toddler. File picture supplied by family

The South Australian-based charity, set up by the devoted mum’s children – Arman, Atena and Anita – supports women and children affected by domestic and family violence.

Ms Tansley said what set it apart from many other support agencies was its focus on addressing the financial abuse and disadvantage women experienced as a result of domestic violence after separation, to “economically empower” them.

“There is a perpetuating myth within the community … that once a woman escapes a violent, abusive relationship, she is safe and she will be all right but we know that is not the case,” she said. “Our support is long-term, we work with women for as long as they need to reach their goals to become financially independent … including planning for pathways back into employment, education or training. Not only does it support her but it supports the children within the family as well.”

Help is in the form of budgeting, financial literacy and advocacy with lenders to negotiate debt.

In the leadup to International Women’s Day, The Advertiser Foundation has partnered with Crestone and Credit Union SA to support the Zahra Foundation, committing to match all donations made before Tuesday, March 8, up to the value of $10,000. A package of entertainment/VIP experiences, donated by State Theatre Company and Adelaide Festival Centre, will be auctioned off by Jonathon Kiritsis, with proceeds going to Zahra, at the SkyCity, The Advertiser and Sunday Mail Woman of the Year Awards.

Credit Union SA CEO Todd Roberts said his organisation’s support would be ongoing.

“It’s amazing organisation, often working in quite difficult circumstances and really leaning in to support disadvantage and hardship … it is changing people’s lives,” he said. “Unfortunately ... the issues Zahra is dealing with are escalating … no doubt Covid has brought (these) to the surface at an even greater pace.”

Crestone SA state manager Kieran Purcell agreed.

“Grassroots organisations such as Zahra not only see the gaps but are agile enough to throw resources where (they are) most needed, such as providing longer-term help so victims can get out of the cycle of abuse,” he said.