‘My date sent me a cute text and I immediately realised he had a secret girlfriend’

A man’s seemingly innocent text turned sketchy when a woman noticed a few curious details.

When you start seeing a man, you often hope that he will turn out to be as sweet, honest, and good-hearted as you have always dreamt of.

Although there are certain red flags in a relationship, those that are presented early on are sometimes overlooked because we are just so excited about the prospect of someone new.

A woman named Jess, who goes by @jsxhxa on TikTok, said she wasn’t so naive with one of her dates – she caught him in what seemed like a deal-breaking lie.

@jsxhxa

Just when I thought he was being cute, you can’t tell me this is a man’s room 😂😂 #rip

♬ Crazy - Patsy Cline

Posting to TikTok, she shared a phone conversation between herself and the man.

Jessica had sent a text to him that read: “I wish I could do that with you. Haven’t relaxed like that in forever lol.”

Replying to this message, the man wrote: “Your spot right here,” alongside a photo of his body in a large bed with an empty spot next to him.

Jessica noticed a few curious details in a text message she received from her date. Picture: TikTok/@jsxhxa

Jessica zoomed in on the photo and revealed that beyond the bed was a television console with a metal “love” sign atop it, a very feminine touch of decor, in her opinion.

The sheets were also pristine and smooth – what she saw as another sign of a woman’s touch.

According to Jessica and others on TikTok, the bedroom seemed a bit too put together to be a man’s. Picture: TikTok/@jsxhxa

Jessica then showed herself with a sad-looking filter as the song Crazy by Pasty Cline played in the background.

She captioned the TikTok: “Just when I thought he was being cute. You can’t tell me this is a man’s room.”

Jessica with a sad-looking filter in a TikTok video she posted. Picture: TikTok/@jsxhxa

Most commenters agreed with her:

“The white sheets were a tell-all. I ain’t never seen men with bedding!!” one person wrote.

“And no game console? Hmmm,” another added.

“That room gives me female vibes all the way,” wrote a third.

A fourth pointed out another giveaway in the corner of the image: “And a candle? Aw no.”

Others, however, were somewhat hopeful:

“Looks like an Airbnb to me,” one wrote.

“I would just assume he lives with his mum,” added a second.

And another said it’s possible a female friend helped him decorate: “Omg!! I bought my friend who is a guy a ton of stuff when he moved into his new house and he had to take it back because girls thought he had a wife.”

This article originally appeared in The Sun and was reproduced with permission

Originally published as ‘My date sent me a cute text and I immediately realised he had a secret girlfriend’